Jayden Obinna Nkeodi

2006 - 2006
LocationOldham
Age0
Date of Birth7/2006
Date of Death7/2006
Visitors4,686 since 14/11/2006
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Jayden Nkeodi,
17 July 2006 at 3.06am (Delivery Suite 9) Royal Oldham
23 weeks gestation SB


GOD'S FINGER TOUCHED HIM AND HE SLEPT


My name is Carla Nkeodi, i concieved in february 2006, my edd was november 25-02 December 2006....

it was a hot sunny day, 16 July 2006, i had been out all day, at my aunties house, with my 2 cousins
who are also pregnant we were all trying out my new fetal heart monitor, and having a laugh, it was
time to go home at 9.30pm, i got ready for bed, shower etc.... got in bed, and OMG!! PAINS, 1st
pregnancy, didnt know what it was... so i rang my mum, who rang the hospital for me, they told me to
go back to bed with 2 paracetamols, ok.... i tried... 10 minutes later i went back to the bathroom,
i was bleeding, rang the hospital back, they sent me an ambulance, i was having contractions every 2
minutes..... i quickly got out of bed, and got my fetal heart monitor, thank god, hes kicking away
and heartbeat was steady, i sat waiting for the ambulance... 10 minutes later although felt like
years, and the ambulance arrives.... contractions still going strong.... i get gas an air.... on way
to hospital, im told im going straight up to delivery suite... but its too early, can you not stop
my labour.. afraid not they replied... i got on the bed, and had an internal... my waters are down,
the midwife breaks my waters, after checking my babys heart, i asked is everything ok? please tell
me its ok? the midwife replied, sorry the machine is broken.. have to get the other... they didnt
bring another monitor... contractions stop... my baby is in fetal position, with legs coming out
1st... my baby was stuck, and they didnt help me at all, 3 hours after arriving at the hospital
they get the on call doctor to come and pull my baby out, with no respect for me or my child, that
should of been given the respect, after all he was a human being...

My baby boy looked just like his daddy...

I buried him: 14 August 2006 (Moston Catholic Cemetary)

Rest In Peace My Angel!

I said to God I hurt
and God said I know,
I said I cry a lot
and God said thats why i gave you tears,
I said life is so hard
and God said thats why i gave you loved ones,
I said but my loved one has died
and God said so did mine,
I said its such a great loss
and God said i saw mine nailed to a cross,
I said but your loved one lives
and God said so does yours,
I said where is he now
and God said my son is by my side,
and your son is in my arms...



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To My Lovely Son

I have always thought of you in my heart and I dont know how to explain the feeling that I have for you, sometimes I thought and I wondered if there was an answer why I lost you only your Mum nows the answer.

I have moved on with your pain in my heart and I would have been a wonderful Daddy to you and I visit you when I can asking myself questions about you and how life would have been if you were here.


I will never forget you and I leave God to take care of you.

Daddy

Obinna Nkeodi March 2, 2009

2 yrs.....

Hello there little man...cant believe its been 2 yrs..still in our thoughts...R.I.P. Jayden xx

Karen Eboigbodin (Auntie) July 17, 2008

so sorry

im so sorry for your loss i lost my baby whens he was 4 her name was grace she meant the world to ma and i had 4 years of looking after her we bonded so much. god always takes the best ones. god bless baby jayden sleep tight keep watch over your new sister and mummy.
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Kelly (passer by) April 21, 2008

Hiya Little man...

Still in our thoughts...xx

Karen Eboigbodin (Auntie) March 27, 2008

Hey little man! im sure you already know, but you have a little sister now.. T'khia . Keep watching and looking after her ok?

Carla Nkeodi (Mother) March 7, 2008

Congratulations on becoming a big brother and also to your mummy and daddy sending you and them all are love xxxxxx

Donna Jaydens Jeffkyns Mummy February 8, 2008

baby is here...

Im sure u were the 1st to kno baby boy..and im sure ur watching ova them..sleep in peace Jayden xx

Karen Eboigbodin (Auntie) February 6, 2008

Still thinking...

You are never far from our thoughts little man..not long now b4 ur bro/sister arrives..watch ova mummy little one xx

Karen Eboigbodin (Auntie) January 21, 2008

Hi

Hi Jayden Congratulations to mummy. Have a great day today sorry ive not visited your site for a while sending all are love to you and family xxxx

Mummy (caring parent) November 14, 2007

Its me again!

I'll let mummy tell u if ur having a sister or brother Jayden..just thought I'd let u know u wont eva be forgotten..xx

Karen Eboigbodin (auntie) October 8, 2007
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