Jayden Obinna Nkeodi

Jayden Nkeodi,
17 July 2006 at 3.06am (Delivery Suite 9) Royal Oldham
23 weeks gestation SB


GOD'S FINGER TOUCHED HIM AND HE SLEPT


My name is Carla Nkeodi, i concieved in february 2006, my edd was november 25-02 December 2006....

it was a hot sunny day, 16 July 2006, i had been out all day, at my aunties house, with my 2 cousins
who are also pregnant we were all trying out my new fetal heart monitor, and having a laugh, it was
time to go home at 9.30pm, i got ready for bed, shower etc.... got in bed, and OMG!! PAINS, 1st
pregnancy, didnt know what it was... so i rang my mum, who rang the hospital for me, they told me to
go back to bed with 2 paracetamols, ok.... i tried... 10 minutes later i went back to the bathroom,
i was bleeding, rang the hospital back, they sent me an ambulance, i was having contractions every 2
minutes..... i quickly got out of bed, and got my fetal heart monitor, thank god, hes kicking away
and heartbeat was steady, i sat waiting for the ambulance... 10 minutes later although felt like
years, and the ambulance arrives.... contractions still going strong.... i get gas an air.... on way
to hospital, im told im going straight up to delivery suite... but its too early, can you not stop
my labour.. afraid not they replied... i got on the bed, and had an internal... my waters are down,
the midwife breaks my waters, after checking my babys heart, i asked is everything ok? please tell
me its ok? the midwife replied, sorry the machine is broken.. have to get the other... they didnt
bring another monitor... contractions stop... my baby is in fetal position, with legs coming out
1st... my baby was stuck, and they didnt help me at all, 3 hours after arriving at the hospital
they get the on call doctor to come and pull my baby out, with no respect for me or my child, that
should of been given the respect, after all he was a human being...

My baby boy looked just like his daddy...

I buried him: 14 August 2006 (Moston Catholic Cemetary)

Rest In Peace My Angel!

I said to God I hurt
and God said I know,
I said I cry a lot
and God said thats why i gave you tears,
I said life is so hard
and God said thats why i gave you loved ones,
I said but my loved one has died
and God said so did mine,
I said its such a great loss
and God said i saw mine nailed to a cross,
I said but your loved one lives
and God said so does yours,
I said where is he now
and God said my son is by my side,
and your son is in my arms...