| Location | Oldham |
| Age | 0 |
| Date of Birth | 7/2006 |
| Date of Death | 7/2006 |
| Visitors | 6,203 since 14/11/2006 |
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Jayden Nkeodi,
17 July 2006 at 3.06am (Delivery Suite 9) Royal Oldham
23 weeks gestation SB
GOD'S FINGER TOUCHED HIM AND HE SLEPT
My name is Carla Nkeodi, i concieved in february 2006, my edd was november 25-02 December 2006....
it was a hot sunny day, 16 July 2006, i had been out all day, at my aunties house, with my 2 cousins who are also pregnant we were all trying out my new fetal heart monitor, and having a laugh, it was time to go home at 9.30pm, i got ready for bed, shower etc.... got in bed, and OMG!! PAINS, 1st pregnancy, didnt know what it was... so i rang my mum, who rang the hospital for me, they told me to go back to bed with 2 paracetamols, ok.... i tried... 10 minutes later i went back to the bathroom, i was bleeding, rang the hospital back, they sent me an ambulance, i was having contractions every 2 minutes..... i quickly got out of bed, and got my fetal heart monitor, thank god, hes kicking away and heartbeat was steady, i sat waiting for the ambulance... 10 minutes later although felt like years, and the ambulance arrives.... contractions still going strong.... i get gas an air.... on way to hospital, im told im going straight up to delivery suite... but its too early, can you not stop my labour.. afraid not they replied... i got on the bed, and had an internal... my waters are down, the midwife breaks my waters, after checking my babys heart, i asked is everything ok? please tell me its ok? the midwife replied, sorry the machine is broken.. have to get the other... they didnt bring another monitor... contractions stop... my baby is in fetal position, with legs coming out 1st... my baby was stuck, and they didnt help me at all, 3 hours after arriving at the hospital they get the on call doctor to come and pull my baby out, with no respect for me or my child, that should of been given the respect, after all he was a human being...
My baby boy looked just like his daddy...
I buried him: 14 August 2006 (Moston Catholic Cemetary)
Rest In Peace My Angel!
I said to God I hurt
and God said I know,
I said I cry a lot
and God said thats why i gave you tears,
I said life is so hard
and God said thats why i gave you loved ones,
I said but my loved one has died
and God said so did mine,
I said its such a great loss
and God said i saw mine nailed to a cross,
I said but your loved one lives
and God said so does yours,
I said where is he now
and God said my son is by my side,
and your son is in my arms...
I feel sorry for all pregnant women all over the world!
Each time I visit this site, my body shivers with emotions and with pain and with anger.
The memories of Carla's stories run through my vain. We had similar incident @ the North Manchester Gen Hosp which nearly took our son away from us.
We nearly lost our first son, my Little Chodize. I was mad! I was sad due to hight rate of negligence in our hospitals (may be due to shortage of staff and cost-saving strategies by our NHS).
I cried, screamed for help and shouted @ the midwife who refused to call the Doctor when my son's heart rate was reduced to nill. Thank God I shouted!
They called security men for me.
4 men in uniform arrived only to see a gentleman seeking to save his wife and unborn child from staff negligence.
Why did they call security men for me?
Well, because I didn't allow the midwife on duty to suffocate and kill my first son.
After my screaming and shouting, doctors arrived from nowhere, rushed my wife for emergency cesarean and withing 45 minutes my baby came out suffering from Hypoxia and had bruises all over his head with signs of severe trauma.
Result - incubation over night.
He lived, but Jayden couldn't make it alive. I feel sorry for pregnant women in the labour ward who suffer this type of ordeal.
Jayden, our prayers are with you.
All of us shall one day, join you to celebrate eternal life with Christ Jesus.
- Adieu -
From Uncle Emmanuel
forever in my thoughts
its been 4 years, and not a day passes i Dont think of you, i know its been a while i came and wrote something for you, but i always think of you.. keep watching over mummy and your little sister. Love you always.. x
Jayden, RIP
Jayden Nkeodi, the Little boy I never met, but whose name was too big to forget. You are a big boy now in Heaven celebrating with Jesus Christ and the Angels! You were born to wonderful parents, but God took you away from them for a resaon best known by GOD. My wishes to your parents - Obinna Nkeodi and Carla - that God bless them through you. Your parents were my good friends and they are still good friends. I travelled all the way from Brighton to Oldham and Manchester to spend the Christmas in 2005, (the Christmas before you were born) with your parents, and we had a fantastic and memorable Christmas DAY with your MUM and DAD + grand mum + a friend with a lavish evening dinner. I have a lovely boy - Chidozie - who could have been your friend, but you are nowhere to be found. RIP, Jayden. We love you and we miss you.
Love, Emmanuel Amadi
To My Lovely Son
I have always thought of you in my heart and I dont know how to explain the feeling that I have for you, sometimes I thought and I wondered if there was an answer why I lost you only your Mum nows the answer.
I have moved on with your pain in my heart and I would have been a wonderful Daddy to you and I visit you when I can asking myself questions about you and how life would have been if you were here.
I will never forget you and I leave God to take care of you.
Daddy
2 yrs.....
Hello there little man...cant believe its been 2 yrs..still in our thoughts...R.I.P. Jayden xx
so sorry
im so sorry for your loss i lost my baby whens he was 4 her name was grace she meant the world to ma and i had 4 years of looking after her we bonded so much. god always takes the best ones. god bless baby jayden sleep tight keep watch over your new sister and mummy.
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Hey little man! im sure you already know, but you have a little sister now.. T'khia . Keep watching and looking after her ok?
Congratulations on becoming a big brother and also to your mummy and daddy sending you and them all are love xxxxxx
baby is here...
Im sure u were the 1st to kno baby boy..and im sure ur watching ova them..sleep in peace Jayden xx
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